“10 Secrets of Effortlessly Thin People”
November 7, 2008
That was the attractive title of MSN’s recent article under the Health & Fitness section which received much flak from readers. And, perhaps, rightly so. Why? Because one, no ’secrets’ were revealed and, two, NOTHING desirable in life comes ‘effortlessly’ (with one exception i.e. read points 1-3 below). The 10 “secrets” comprised of one or two good points, a couple of bad or wrong ones & the remaining were simple common sense advice on healthy eating & exercise.
Below is my take on the article.
“12 Reasons & Practices of Sensibly Thin People”
- Blessed with it! It is a blessing from Allah (SubbhanawaTaAala) first & foremost. In a world where being over-weight spells inevitable doom in the arena of vanity & health, if one is effortlessly lean, it is nothing but a great bounty from Allah (SubbhanawaTaAala).
- ‘Slim’ Genes. Yes, that is another very major reason for being easily thin. You either have them or you don’t. People blessed with such genes don’t know the spelling of ‘diet’ or ‘exercise’, but they sail through their lives’ tests with small girth, lean silhouette & envious friends!
- Natural Body Type. People are classed into body types called Ectomorph (soft & delicate), Mesomorph (hard & muscular) & Endomorph (big & round). Usually this division is associated with geography & race. Majority of effortlessly slim people are ectomorphs. Again, it a blessing if you find yourself on the ‘ecto-side’ of the scale.
- Eat Small Portions. Yes, its common sense & it WORKS. Prophet (sallallahualaihiwassalam) said: “The food for one person is sufficient for two, the food for two is sufficient for four and the food for four is sufficient for eight.” 1
- Don’t go for second helpings. One serving really is sufficient for satiation & energy requirement of the body. The trim people live by that tenet & only allow one or two of their favorite dishes to be an exception to this rule. Prophet (Salulaahualihiwasallum) said: “The child of Adam fills no vessel worse than his stomach. Sufficient for the child of Adam are a few morsels to keep his back straight. If he must eat more, then a third should be for his food, a third for his drink, and a third left for air.” 2
- Eat Slowly. Doesn’t matter if they are the last one to finish their meal at a party. This practice has multiple benefits & goes a long way in ensuring they eat less, really savor the taste & digest better.
- Eat with three fingers. This is the practice of the Prophet (Salulaahualihiwasallum).3 There are immense health benefits to it as it helps keep one in-line with the SLS eating principle (i.e. eat Small-eat Less-eat Slow). Learn how to eat this way by reading, “Fingers, Food & Sunnah“.
- Eat Dinner with a T-Spoon. Yes, ditch the traditional dinner spoons. They are way too big. You inadvertently end-up eating too much too fast. Ever seen a slender person eating with a dinner spoon? No, it won’t even fit in their mouths. If you heap your dinner morsels on those gigantic things, then be prepared to become one!
- Enjoy favorite calorific desserts. Yes, who says you have to deprive yourself of good food. The golden key with slim people is “moderation”. There is indescribable pleasure in dipping that spoon in a bowl of rich chocolate mousse. ”Those who show moderation in eating find greater pleasure in their food than those who overindulge. When they become addicted and habituated to their indulgence, they find no great pleasure in it anymore, though they might suffer for want of it when they do not have it and endure ill health because of it.” 4
- Don’t mix two carbohydrates at one meal. Carbohydrate-rich food consists of bread, pasta, rice, etc. They don’t combine any of them in one meal. There is a tendency of overeating, without realizing it, if you combine any two. ”The Prophet ( Salullahualahiwasallum) never mixed two hot dishes, or two cold dishes, two constipating dishes, two laxative dishes, two heavy dishes, two liquid foods or two types of food that produced the same condition.” 5
- Clean the plates. This is the exact opposite of what was suggested by the author of the afore-mentioned article. She sites the logic that “thin people are tuned into noticing when they are satisfied, and they stop eating even if there is food left” on their plates. WRONG! That’s not what thin people do. I suggest we go one step back, use common sense & knowledge of our own stomach-size & only serve ourselves measured quantities that we know is our body’s requirement. That way we don’t waste food. Plus, we don’t miss out on the blessings found in the food. ”… “…and eat and drink but waste not by extravagance, certainly He (Allaah) likes not Al‑Musrifoon (those who waste by extravagance)” 6 “…And he commanded us to clean the plate, and said, ‘For you do not know where in your food the blessing is.’” 7
- Physically Active. It does not have to be a gym membership or a boring treadmill at home for them. Their key to consistency in physical exercise is to either do something that is also functional or something that’s enjoyable. Ditch the domestic helper. A simple regular house cleaning that includes dusting, sweeping & mopping the house is sufficient to keep their metabolism efficient. There’s nothing like pure active fun to bestow agility & leanness to their bodies. Table Tennis or mini indoor trampoline anyone? Prophet (Salullahualihiwasallum) said, “Any action without the remembrance of Allah is either a diversion or heedlessness excepting four acts: Walking from target to target [during archery practice], training a horse, playing with one’s family, and learning to swim.” 8
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1 Sahih Muslim 971
2 Sunan al-Tirmidhî 2380, Musnad Ahmad 17186 and authenticated by al-Albânî in Sahîh al-Jâmi
3 Muslim-2031, Ahmad-26626, Abu Dawood-3848
4 Writings of Ibn Taymiyah
5 Medicine of the Prophet by Ibn Katheer
6 Quran, al-A’raaf 7:31
7 Muslim, 2034
8 Tabarani



November 7, 2008 at 5:24 pm
Masha’allah! gr8 post! Jazakallah for reminding me of the bounty Allah swt has granted me by making of those ppl who fall into points 1-3. And ive been dieing to learn how to swim since ages. insha’allah one day. Oh and archery is so fascinating too and so is horse back riding.
Serendipitouslife replies:
. It is fascinating.
“Waiyyaki.
I know, indeed it is a BLESSING! Alhumdullilah.
I’ve tried learning to swim but still haven’t learnt. Haven’t tried enough i guess.
I don’t know anyone who knows or any place where they practise archery
Horse riding is something i look forward to soon…lets see if that works out. In the mean time atleast i can say i’ve ridden camels & elephants! Ha!”
November 8, 2008 at 2:25 am
I love how you’ve placed a Hadith with each point, makes me wonder at how so many yrs back we Muslims were ahead of times in every possible manner,but we have declined and degraded our own teachings.
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serendipitouslife replies:
“True. Muslims started as an oppressed minority, then grew to a glorious nation & presently is in the mediocre form. But you see the pattern? The highs & lows, the rise & decline, victory & defeat? The state doesn’t remain the same. So, inshaAllah, we should look forward to rising again. But that, ofcourse, begins with changing ourselves & actively working towards that outcome.”
November 8, 2008 at 10:34 am
wow jazaki Allahu khayran ukhtee!
I’m one of those ************************************** lol walhamdulillah for abayahs! (and niqaab)
btw this comment was just for you, please delete it after you read it sis
serendipitouslife replies:
“Jaza ana waiyyakum.
Its nice that now i can somewhat put a face to your name, sis. I understand your predicament with selection. But alhumdullilah, still ‘this‘ is better than ‘that‘.
As requested, I’ve deleted telling portions from your comment.”
November 8, 2008 at 5:40 pm
ooh I’ve gone horseback riding a few times, mashaAllah I really enjoy it! Alhamdulillah also my parents enrolled us in swimming lessons from when we were really young (like 5-6) so all of my siblings and I know how to swim. I’m sure there’s a place where you live! UAE, right?
As for archery, there are a few places where I live, but I don’t know how it would look to these non Muslims having a niqaabi sister do archery lol.
Can you imagine the stares?!
serendipitouslife replies:
“Yes, alhumdullilah, there are many private pools, sp. ladies days at beach & water parks and exclusive beach areas for women to swim, here.
‘Niqaabi sister practising archery in the west’ ….lol i can imagine the stares!”
November 8, 2008 at 5:50 pm
Assalamu Alaykum,
Ma’shallah, a great article. May Allah Bless You Ukhti and grant you paradise in the HereAfter…Ameen
Wassalam
serendipitouslife replies:
“Waalaikum asalaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,
Alhumdullilah.
Jazaana waiyyakum & Ameen to your dua.
May Allah grant us all Success in the Hereafter.”
November 9, 2008 at 1:49 am
I did take swimming lessons at school and so know a few strokes but since the time i left it…im soo slow and bad. Alhamdulilah we have ladies clubs and all here in UAE. Oh about the archery thing, they do have it in Dubai country club..just do a google search on it. And ive not even ridden a camel!!!
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and im looking into horse back riding too..the places for that are so far here in Dubai though.
I will definitely give my dad the idea of desert safari!and uve been on an elephant?! whoa! Ive just ridden a pony as a kid
Serendipitouslife replies:
“Yes, the equestrian clubs are quite far from the city & also pretty expensive. You don’t have to go for the full-fledged desert safari (with all its non-halal stuff) to enjoy camel ride. There are two spots on the Dubai-Hatta highway, where you can enjoy rides on horses, camels & dune-buggy. And if you go on non public-off days, there is no crowding at all.”
November 9, 2008 at 11:16 pm
please leave a comment on my website. jazakAllah
serendipitouslife replies:
“InshaAllah”
November 10, 2008 at 10:56 am
Assalamualaikum,
Unbelievable. Here I was thinking of writing a similar post.
W’salam,
Hajar
Serendipitouslife replies:
“Walaikumasalaam Hajar,
You can still write your version.
“Sometimes people put up walls, not to keep others out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.”
Hmmm, I AM interested in your version.”
November 11, 2008 at 4:36 pm
AA
MashaAllah great post!
I recently read an article that one of the main reasons for putting on weight is the act of “wolfing down the food”, i.e. just eating and eating until one can eat no more. I must admit that i have been guilty of this many times in the past, especially when eating out with friends.
But alhamdullilah i am able to keep myself fit by cycling to work and regularly exercising, which makes a huge difference on overall health. I have felt this difference when i sometimes lapse and don’t exercise, then i start to feel much more lethargic etc…
I have done Horse riding once here in the UK and i wasn’t happy about being instructed in a small enclosed area of how to walk and steer the horse around the small area, occasionally getting the horse to jog at a very slow pace, all by a 15 year old girl.
. I just wanted to take the horse out into an open field and just let myself loose, just like they do in the western movies. lol. But i suppose i have to start somewhere.
Archery i have done once in the past, but haven’t had the opportunity to do it again.
As for swimming, i can swim but i still have a phobia of deep water which i need to overcome. if you throw me into a pool where my feet can touch the floor then i have no probs, but if i can’t stand in the water then you can forget it!
Breathing is another issue, i just can’t get the technique for the breathing right. Any tips?
JazaakiAllahu khairan sister for an interesting post!
Was
serendipitouslife replies:
“Waalaikumasalaam
Alhumdullilah. Wajazaakum.
Here’s a wonderful piece of advice on right eating and the right intention for it from the great scholar of hadeeth, Imam Sufyaan Ath Thawree:
“Do not be a heavy eater, whereby you work less than you eat, for that is disliked (in Islam). Do not eat without an intention, and do not eat when you are not hungry.”
“Stand up, O young people, and continue to pray throughout the years of your youth (so that you will have become accustomed to worship in your old age).”
“If you want to maintain a healthy body, and if you want to sleep only a little, then eat only a little.”
May Allah help you & reward you for striving towards healthy eating & exercise (with the right intention of course).”
November 13, 2008 at 1:12 am
AA
MashaAllah! Great Advice
JazaakiAllahu Khairan
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